Christians Online Dating Guide

When utilizing any type of online dating website, Christians must have priorities with their first priority in being a Christian and your relationship with God. God will provide guidance in seeking the perfect Christian mate but one must find the perfect online dating website for this important venture.

God’s plan for all his children is to have someone special to share their life with. One wants to ensure that the online dating website they choose is specifically for single Christians. The world of the internet has numerous temptations for not only Christians but also non-believers and one who is dedicated to God must be able to triumph over these temptations. A true Christian’s duty is to associate themselves with a genuine Christian dating website.

Seek god’s advice before enlisting the dating services of an online dating website. One must have high standards in seeking a Christian mate. There are numerous factors to consider when embarking on this journey. Are you willing to meet someone who is considered a “baby Christian”? Are you willing to date people outside of your religious denomination? These are only a few of the questions one must ask themselves before embarking on the services of an online dating website.

It would be wise before meeting a Christian from the online website to find out their goals in dating and if they match ones personal goals they have set for themselves. The ultimate goal of Christian dating is to find a spouse while maintaining the foundation of God within the relationship and ultimately marriage.

Unbelievably, dating people from an online dating website is not much different in comparison to meeting other Christian’s offline. The same specifics are present and just as important when on the dating scene.

Online Dating – Does It Work?

What is Love?

What do we consider love? One popular dictionary site states that love is: “The most spectacular,indescribable, deep euphoric feeling for someone.” So love is spectacular and indescribable. Love sets our hearts on fire, it makes our blood boil and turns us into different creatures. Love, sex and romance have fueled our culture and history, they have built up and torn down empires, and they are what every person wants to find.

Where is the Love?

How do you find it? In the past you looked to your friends, you scanned the church and searched the clubs, maybe it even would even sneak up on you at work. In the deeper past you married who your parents decided and hoped love would spark. Today, as before, we use the tools at our disposal. They just happen to be different tools. Today we use the internet.

Not more than a few years ago, no self respecting person would admit that they were dating online. It was seen as a last resort, a tool for the desperate. What a difference a few years makes! Scientists at the University of Rochester recently reported a study where they found that online dating is now the second most common way to begin a relationship. Today tens of millions of people use online dating sites and these sites have proliferated. PlentyOfFish.com, Match.com, eHarmony.com, OKCupid.com and these are just a very few of the most popular not even counting the niche dating sites. What was frowned upon has become commonplace and why wouldn’t it. A CNN article recently summed it up like this:

If you’re young, urban and didn’t import a significant other from college, it’s pretty likely that you’re on an online dating site.

The pool of possibilities widens immensely. No longer do you need to settle for people you would meet at work, a party, church, or a local bar. Many of these dating sites even promise, through proprietary computer matching, that they can indeed pick out your perfect mate.

Where do We Find Love

Can they truly pick a perfect match? That is still a rather controversial assertion, but what they will do is introduce you to many more people than you would have met otherwise. And it all depends on what you are looking for and it depends how hard you want to look. Everyone knows someone who met their spouse online, as well as met people who have horror stories about online dating. Are the statistic for online dating any better than traditional dating? A study recently out published in the journal Psychological Science in the Public Interest states that it is no more effective than traditional dating for finding a happy relationship. The study states:

Regarding matching, no compelling evidence supports matching sites’ claims that mathematical algorithms work-that they foster romantic outcomes that are superior to those fostered by other means of pairing partners.

This may be true, but we use the tools at our disposal. So cupid is still rather stingy with his arrows high tech or otherwise. If it were that easy, it wouldn’t be love!

Make 50k A Month With An Online Dating Site

It has been well documented that online dating is a phenomenon which has changed the lives of millions of people throughout the world. Two out of every five singletons in Europe and the USA aged 25 – 40 have used an on line service to either find a partner, or simply to enhance their social lives by making new friends.

This exponential explosion in the dating sector has meant that many companies owning and operating the sites themselves have come from a standing start to generating significant revenues in a matter of just a few months. It is possible to make a small fortune from online dating but, then again, it’s just as possible to lose your shirt. For every successful site, there are five others which simply ‘got it wrong’. If you follow these few basic guidelines, you could join the cyber-revolution which has not only become a lifestyle choice in itself for a great many consumers, but an extremely profitable market for webmasters to enter.

1. Niche works. Yes, we all know the names of the global dating sites which dominate the sector, but if you want to create a site that attracts millions of members, you are going to need very deep pockets just to get on the first rung of the ladder. There are a great many very successful sites that either cater to special interest groups such as bikers, military personnel etc or geo-targeted sites that cover just one country or even one city. The advantage of this kind of concept is that it is much easier and cheaper to promote than a service which attracts all-comers. The sophistication of online marketing, particularly the various pay-per-click search engines, enables you to target your audience very specifically thereby maximising your return on investment without having to overly stretch your financial resources.

2. Don’t over-complicate the design of the site. The primary aim of the homepage should be to encourage visitors to register with your service, not to marvel at your use of different colours or design features. Stick to just two colours (one should preferably be blue – the colour of trust) on a white background and avoid flashing buttons at all costs.

3. Keep your proposition simple. If a dating site looks so complicated that only ‘teccies’ can use it, you’ll lose most of your audience as soon as they land on your homepage. The most successful dating sites tend to offer a very basic system of picture profiles and secure messaging. People sign-up, create their profiles, upload their photos and start sending email messages to other members with whom they think they might be compatible. It’s easy and you don’t have to have a degree in computer sciences to do it. But there are many sites out there which offer a bewildering array of features – video profiles, psychological profiling and the like; all very expensive to integrate and manage and most, to be frank, are a complete waste of time and money.

4. Offer a free trial. This might seem rather ironic in an article which purports to tell you how to create a profitable business, but in order to get your members to pay you a subscription fee, you have to get them to register with your site in the first instance. If you let people have a look around, browse through the database and perhaps send a couple of messages to other people, they are far more likely to want to subscribe than if you ask them to do so straight away without giving them a taste of what your site can offer.

5. Populate your database as quickly as possible. People follow other people when they join dating sites and if your site looks like it hasn’t got many members, then people will give it a wide berth. When you launch, it’s well worth you doing a limited email marketing campaign which offers a free subscription to founder members. Remember, the hardest part of creating a successful online dating business is to get your first 100 registrants – you want them there in week one and the quickest way to do that is to offer a freebie to your first sign-ups. You’re not losing money – these are the most important members and without them your business will not get past first base.

6. Spend your marketing budget wisely. You don’t have to throw money at a dating site in order to promote it effectively – you just have to be smart. Establish an affiliate programme with one of the main networks operating in your country as soon you launch your site. Affiliates are third party web-sites which refer traffic to your business on a revenue sharing basis. You don’t have to pay affiliates to join your programme, you just offer them a percentage of any subscription revenue which they generate and this is the most cost-effective way of promoting yourself. And you should also avoid generic search-terms when you instigate pay-per-click campaigns on the major engines. Keywords like ‘dating’ and ‘online dating’ are expensive to bid on and convert less well than niche terms which are more applicable to the actual concept of your site. If, for example, you are running a dating service for singles living in Chicago, keywords like ‘Chicago dating’ or ‘singles in Chicago’ will be relatively cheap to bid on and will yield a far better conversion rate than the more general terms.

7. Offer good customer service. Remember, your members are real people many of whom will not be as computer savvy as you are and when any of them contact the site with a problem (a forgotten password or log-in difficulties are usually the most common), you should endeavor to respond as soon as you are able. An unanswered message is the easiest way to actually lose a member so don’t ignore or put off answering the mails that you will inevitably receive.

8. Communicate with your members. I’ve left this point until last but it it just as important as anything I’ve mentioned above. A weekly newsletter to your database will encourage people to log-in to their accounts on a regular basis (particularly if they are able to click through directly from the email to the site without having to log-in) and will also help to foster an emotional bond between your business and it’s paying customers. Every business to consumer online entity should have a human face and site owners who ignore this do so at their peril.

So there you have it; take heed of the eight snippets of advice that I have outlined above and you too can reap the substantial rewards on offer in this exciting and vibrant market sector.